Marriage is not a perpetual bliss. Most often a relationship is rocked by issues that shake its very foundation. Save the Marriage System is a powerful book with theory-driven insights on how you can save a broken marriage. Unlike most counseling books, Save the Marriage System does not just focus on improving communication. It, however, delves deeper into the concept of perception, something that, more or less hinders communication.
Author, Dr. Lee Baucom, a professional marriage and family counselor tackles every issue with a lively and entertaining voice. The book is written to be results-oriented with examples taken from real-life scenarios. It is easy to understand and people can quickly perceive what their marriage lacks. This self-help book aims to inspire readers to work on their failing marriage. It is a complete guide on how you can turn your life around and make your marriage work again.
Divorce is an all too common word in our society. It has weakened our social structure and has become an escape at the slightest sight of a problem. By using Dr. Baucom’s logical approach to a relationship, you will see a different side of the spectrum.
Dr. Baucom developed his ideas around some of the most common marital problems faced by millions of adults. It aims to enlighten us of our marital mistakes and find a way to resolve these issues with confidence. Dr. Baucom has a powerful way of delivering his messages through everyday examples faced by couples.
During the course of his career, Dr. Baucom has created several internet marriage programs, ebooks, and audio series. He has been married for 28 years and literally knows what he is talking about. He is a trained therapist and has worked with organizations and businesses around the country.
Dr. Lee Baucom is actively involved in raising his two children. When not busy with his professional career – writing, being a guest speaker, or practicing his counseling profession – Dr. Baucom finds time with his family. He loves scuba diving, trail runs, and paddleboard adventures.
The Save the Marriage System is composed of four modules devoted to how marriage works and its intricacies. The central e-book entitled, “Save the Marriage”, is the core of the course which brings the whole book together. The complete Save the Marriage system includes two additional bonus e-books and two bonus audiobooks.
Citing examples from real scenarios, Dr. Baucom develops his topics lively and interestingly. His examples are relatable helping each reader quickly understand. The e-book is composed of 17 informative chapters. Each chapter has a unique way of presenting an instance where every marriage fails.
The first chapter of the book covers topics and answers questions on why traditional couple therapy fails. The chapter gives readers insights on why a couple’s therapy might not work and when it might not help.
The second and third chapters delve into the recipes for a successful married life. Each chapter details all of the elements that help make your marriage work. This includes communication, the “we” perspective, and several other thoughtful tips that will greatly help all of your life relationships.
From Chapter 6 onwards, the book focuses on the “you” part of the relationship. It touches on the feelings of a downhill marriage and how you can cycle upwards instead. Each chapter has a unique topic from questions of still loving your spouse to emotional instabilities that often linger.
Chapters 9 down to the last chapter highlights the “we” part of the relationship. These chapters are highly relevant in helping you understand the marriage paradigm to achieve a happy married life. Each chapter is uniquely developed with topics that are often taken for granted in a husband-wife relationship.
Much of the topics included are setting boundaries, the stages of intimacy, relating with your spouse, the importance of time, and the wonders of sex. It encapsulates all of the important components needed for your relationship to thrive.
Dr. Lee Baucom developed each topic to be relatable citing examples to help you quickly understand each scenario.
With topics that stretch from the most basic scenario to the most complex emotional issues, this book has it all. Dr. Lee Baucom covered each topic with an intimate knowledge based on his education and practice. Not only did he devote his time to developing each topic, but he also made sure to make them interesting. From beginning to end, readers dive into the story.
In our modern world where family relationship is becoming dispensable, Save the Marriage System offers to change our precepts. Lee’s premise, an old fashioned view of relationships, helps in saving the family unit as top priority. It also presents each topic vividly and tells you of strategies to avert compromising with family life complexities.
Not lingering on the negative aspects of circumstances, Dr. Baucom chooses to focus on turning them into a bonding moment. Every marriage has to go through some kind of rough seas, as it also solidifies the relationship. Furthermore, it forms a tight bond seen positively and makes the relationship stronger.
Nevertheless, in many situations, the concepts of Save the Marriage System should work regardless of the level of relationship between you and your spouse. However, 60-day satisfaction guarantee is provided.